Getting flak from strangers is not new for Kate Langdon and her wife, but since they had a child together, there’s been a new barrage of questions. It still surprises me if I’m out somewhere, whether it’s a work event or a social one, and a stranger – who has clocked my wedding ring – asks me if my husband is here too, or what my husband’s name is, or sometimes even what my husband does for a living. I don’t know why these types of questions surprise me, they shouldn’t anymore as I’ve been asked them so often.